Saturday, October 20, 2007

8. May be I don't drive a big car, or eat in expensive restaurants, but I am sure there are girls who will find me interesting.

Show her concern and understanding. It is not enough to take her out, a date can end in minutes if the girl feels she's dating a self-centred ego driven man. Concern and understanding can sometimes be shown through the little things. Like if she ordered a dish and she finds that it has something she does not want, see if you can send it back. Or improvise. The thing is to show her sensitivity to her needs and comfort. That's the mark of a gentleman. If she gets bad news in the middle of date, do know how to react. Just be there. You don't have to give advice like Dr. Phil or Oprah Winfrey. "It is these little things that show us signs of what kind of person he is. I remember going out with this man who would drop me off and would only drive away once I get into the house. Or even the times when we went back home on our own, he would call to see if I arrived. These thoughtful gestures meant a lot to me. He was someone I could depend on and trust," says writer Millicent Davies. There you have it guys, she wants a guy who is concern and understanding

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